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male looking for bdsm/ddlg female

I'm a simple man looking for a bdsm and/or ddlg relationship with a woman in the Charleston, WV area. The relationship can be occasional and casual or serious, if it blossoms. I am most definitely dominant, but gentle.

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Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Movie theaters, for oral and hand work or playing with toys.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?My office, when I had one. Luckily, the door could be locked.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height170 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Body ArtNone
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessBelow average

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyTeacher / Education
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleI work 3 different jobs, but all are gun based.

Looking For

My perfect matchMy fav fetish is a DD/LG (daddy dom/little girl) relationship with BDSM component. I'm also cool with a BDSM relationship where she is submissive.
Our first dateTalking and me judging cleanliness. If I see meth mouth, heroin sores, etc then I'm out. I'd like to meet somewhere public, talk, then go to one of our homes or a hotel. Sex would usually include a BDSM theme, but for starting off, I'm OK with vanilla.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasA friend came to my old apartment to experiment. While bound and gagged, she was whipped, spanked, flogged, massaged and had many many orgasms. This blossomed into a fun fuckbudy dom/sub relationship.

Fetishes

FetishesLace / Lingerie, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Panty, Smothering, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a year
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":I'm usually not down for any sort of scat play. In DDLG relationships, there's one obvious exception. I don't get off on being hurt, so I typically remain the dom. I hate outside-of-relationship drama. Nothing involving other males.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyMy top two are BDSM and DDLG. In BDSM, I love restraining (cuffs, rope, tape, straightjacket, etc) and gagging (tape, muzzle/panel gags, ball gags, cleave, whatever, it's a huge turn-on) a girl/woman and either engaging in foreplay and body admiration then fucking, or starting with some impact play from whips or paddles then fucking. Oral, vaginal and anal sex are all fine. If you're into it, orgasm denial can be a thing. My other fav is the Daddy Dom, Little Girl activities. To be clear this does NOT involve anyone underage. An of-age adult female regresses mentally. Play can include diapers, spanking, sex, cuddling, etc. I get that diapers turn a lot of people off, and that's Ok. It isn't mandatory, just one particular fet.
Fantasy sex partner:A girl who likes being controlled, bound/gagged, forced to cum, but also can engage in good sex. Needs to be clean. Diaper lovers are awesome, but again, not mandatory. Even better is if she had a female friend who would be down for threesomes.